Reason for Creating O.H.C.M.

1) Don't let people "misjudge" me as unfriendly...

* I like to speak. But don't really that dare to speak...

2) (Explain the statement 1)

- As in don't dare to speak, some people may say that I don't have this kind of problem...

* But I have this problem...

* I always speak to those are "close" to me..

Eg: At school : I talk a lot with those who are beside me... ( because they are "close"...)

Eg: At home : I talk a lot with my siblings...( because they are "close"...)

3) (Explain statement 1,2)

= I only talk a person when there is feeling of security...

- Once I speak to a person, I felt the feeling of security..(安全感)

+ Then I will continue to speak more and more and more...

*More and more nonsence....

^ Sometimes I may talk a lot to a person and ignore others... -_-

= Is not that the others aren't good, is that I haven't feel the "securityness"...

* Is hard to find the "securityness" sometimes...

4) (Explain statement 1,2,3)

=Sometimes I will like create some talking topics like
+What will do later when you go home?

+What is your favourite (.....)?

+You study? (when exam comes)

#I always repeat asking these questions to almost everyone... (Lame!) :(

& When I want to ask a person one question, I will think very long.. What should I say? What will her/his response?... So when I talk to a person at 7.00pm, I actually already start thinking (.....) at 6.45pm already... +_+

5) I always look forward to see how people responds...

*If like they just reply me one sentence, then I will like feel rejected.. (want go cry alrdy) =_=

***Although I know sometimes people talk to me, I also reply very few sentences... But the truth is my brain interprets the impulses very slow... (thinking what to say)

+ So when you talk to me, please don't straight away go away when I reply one sentence or even no sentence -->wait for me to think first what to talk, when I stop for 2minutes, onli you go away... 能不能给我想一句话的时间? LOL...

&Always wished that :

= Got people remember my birthday... {-_-""}

= When I talk to people, people will respond to me in the way which is friendly...

= I hope no people in this world will hate me...

= I will always be happy...

= Friends are always truthful, Family is always beside me giving me support...

= I can always help people...

= I can learn to love, to treasure and to give...